QUESTION:For Christmas, I gave out gag gifts to my fellow board members–a condom for the men and an early pregnancy test kit for the ladies. The recipients are all over 65; most are in their 70s. A week later I received a letter from our HOA attorney accusing me of sexual harassment. At a meet the candidates forum, a shareholder asked a question that referenced the content of the letter. Do I have any protection from this confidential letter being shared?
ANSWER: If there is one thing I’ve learned, it’s that people like to talk–especially when directors behave badly. Your options are quite limited. No court is going to order people to stop talking about you. Can you sue for defamation? If members truthfully describe what you did, you would spend a lot of money and lose. Moreover, your litigation would alienate everyone and they would talk about you, your prank, and your lawsuit endlessly.
RECOMMENDATION: If you want to run for the board and win, you should own-up to your gag and apologize for it. If members believe your apology is sincere, you have a better chance of winning their votes.
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